Really makes me sick
It really makes me sick that you hear almost on a daily basis a child being molested or a man attempting to meet with a teenage girl to have sex with her. As a survivor of sexual abuse this just makes me competely sick to my core. What is it in these men (sorry, but most are men) that drives them to want to touch or have sex with a kid. They are kids! They by law and by maturity have not reached adulthood. They can not make wise mature decisions about sex. They truely can not defend themselves against these munipulative and scary men. It’s just so sad. I know you hear more about it now then you did say 20 years ago because let’s face it, back then it wasn’t spoken of. Why? Well, most of the time when a girl is molested it is a family member or someone that girl knows. And to save everyone it is hushed or not spoken. Sometimes it is shoved under the rug. But that only hurts the victim again. That molester is free to do it again and again and again. No they do not stop just because they got caught, they are sick in the head and they continue until the law confines them in an instiutional place where they can’t get to their victims. Then the victim is sent into counseling when it really is not just them that needs it. Their support system needs to be invovled too. There is a lifetime of recovery. Hear that – a lifetime! Depending on the degree of abuse it can really damage a girl’s self-being and the core of who they are.
jipmeister said,
6 April 2008 at 9:56 pm
tag surfing and found your blog – I’ve thought the same thing recently that it seems every time I turn around there is yet another story of a child being used and abused. It is not only heart breaking but horrifying too.
I’ve read through some of your other recent posts. I’ll definitely stop by back by again.
jipmeister said,
6 April 2008 at 10:03 pm
I wanted to email you some information relative to dealing with the sexual abuse. If that’s okay with you please email me. My email link is on my blog
thanks
OneOfMany said,
7 April 2008 at 12:11 pm
AGREED. I just heard on the news this morning of another sting where the police caught over 20 men, some married and with kids, trying to meet and have sex with a 14-year old girl! It just disgusts me! You start questioning whether you can trust anyone anymore…
Calling Him Out said,
7 April 2008 at 12:20 pm
OneofMany
Read that article too! I would love to be one of the undercover agents on the other end of that computer setting these people up. Maybe I could get some since of closure from that since I can’t with my father.